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Hey Reader You know how planning activities with the kids can sometimes feel overwhelming?Here’s a simple idea to shake things up—create a “Boredom Jar.” Just grab a jar, write down fun activity ideas on slips of paper (like “build a pillow fort” or “go on a scavenger hunt”), and let the kids do one when they’re feeling restless.It’s easy, fun, and a total lifesaver on busy days.Small wins matter. You’ve got this! Joyce xx P.S. Need some more inspiration for your Boredom Jar? Check out this...

Fast 5 Top Picks #1 What's On - CBD Exhibition: RAIN (Thursdays - Sundays until 15 Jun) Take a moment to chart the seasons between you and your child in this immersive and sensory exhibition. Stompers (Tuesdays & Thursdays during school term) A fun-filled early literacy program with songs, rhymes and stories for toddlers aged 18 months to 3 years. JOY: Immigration Museum (Daily until Friday 29 Aug) An emotive adventure where creativity, colour and storytelling join forces to take you on a...

Hi there Reader Ever find yourself over-planning a family outing only to feel burnt out before it even begins? Been there. The truth? The best memories are made when things are simple. No overthinking, no perfection—just showing up and being together. So this week, I’m challenging you: pick one low-effort activity and let go of the planning stress. Maybe it’s a picnic in the park or a quick trip to a local playground—whatever feels easy and fun. You’ve got this. Joyce xx P.S. What's your...

Fast 5 Top Picks #1 What's On - CBD ArtPlay Inside Out (Thursday 15 May - Sunday 18 May) A fun-filled creative adventure where little ones aged 2-5 can explore their imagination and play with a variety of materials in a welcoming space Kids Pumpkin Storytime (Friday 16 May) Gather under Yayoi Kusama’s Dancing Pumpkin for a reading session with some of the most-loved children’s book creators. Shrine Kids (Daily until 30 Jun) A special kids' program at the Shrine, designed for younger visitors...

Hi there Reader Since the last time I emailed, I’ve been busy curating even more amazing family activities in and around Melbourne—and honestly, it feels so rewarding helping families make the most of their time together. But you know what I’m not so great at? Asking for referrals. So, I’m giving it a go... Tot is all about helping parents and carers find the best experiences for their kids (without the endless scrolling). If you know someone who’d love this newsletter—or better yet, someone...

Jump to What’s On near you👇 and enjoy your week out and about! Joyce xx Fast 5 Top Picks #1 What's On - CBD Van Gogh at THE LUME (Daily until Sunday 1 Jun) Immerse your little ones in a multi-sensory journey through Van Gogh's masterpieces at Australia's first permanent digital art gallery. Mini Marine Mornings (Monday 5 May) A special session for pre-schoolers to discover underwater wonders through stories, craft and exploration at SEA LIFE Melbourne Aquarium. Rainbow Art Class (Thursdays)...

Hi Reader 👋 This week, life has felt like a bit of a circus—between keeping the kids busy, managing work, and somehow avoiding the laundry pile (still not folded, btw). But you know what? I realised something…this doesn't have to be overwhelming, even with the weather cooling down and school routines back in full swing. So, I've pulled together a fantastic round-up of what's happening around Melbourne this month. Check it out here. From Australia's Biggest Morning Tea to Walk Safely to School...

Show Mum Some Love Top Picks #1 What's On - CBD Mother’s Day High Tea at Lanson Place (Sunday 11 May) Celebrate with a sweet spread of cakes, pastries, and scones in the heart of Melbourne. Enoki’s Wonderland (Daily from Thursday 1 May – Sunday 11 May) For families and bubups (babies), this dynamic space transforms Artplay into a hub of artful play. Plus, don't miss Bubup’s First Rave on Mother's Day! Mother’s Day Lunch at Le Meridien (Sunday 11 May) Treat Mum to an elegant Mother’s Day lunch...

Hi Reader 👋 Do you ever feel like parentlyf can get a bit boring? I do. That's why 14 years ago I started blogging - to get myself out of a wake-feed-bed-bath-sleep rut while also sparking inspiration for other people's family adventures. I created Tot Hot or Not to be like your bestie parent friend - provide recommendations, share what's been a hit and help each other avoid the duds. When you’ve built a network of fellow parents and caregivers, sharing ideas for fun activities gets so much...